My BIG (Wedding) Day! Should we cancel it now, postpone it, or go ahead with it?
I know the global pandemic is what is holding you back from becoming a Mrs to your Mr, same goes to him becoming a Mr to his Mrs.
But for how long would you be waiting for the pandemic to vanish totally before you go about having your dream wedding?
But for now, you shouldn't be more worried about the already lavished big day you've planned.
The ball is in your court.
Be more concerned about starting your life already with your Mr Right and your Mrs Right.
You and I know how many weddings are on hold because of the Situation of things, you definitely can't disobey the government rule of having a gathering of over 20 to 50 people for SOCIAL DISTANCING sake.
You either have your wedding now with just few family members or you wait for 1 to two years to have your planned big day with all your favorite people in attendance.
Wedding days are always tagged "BIG DAY" especially to the lady.
I don't know how much a man sees his wedding day as a lady do.
It is a day she walks down the aisle and say YES I DO to her BEST FRIEND, the day she calls all the ladies she has met in her entire life from childhood till adulthood to come share in her big day, the day her mum will call all the women she has attended their daughters wedding to come support her in her own daughter's day, the Hausa people will say "ramako" (returning the gesture).
The day her dad will call all his big friends in politics and outside politics to come be part of his cherished daughters big day,
Same goes to the guy and his family.
The day that favorite make-up artist will beat her face to beauty extraordinaire.
The day she will rock her wedding gown, her sparkling shoe and accessories to match looking all bling bling, the day she turns a big celebrity, the day she dishes out all the butterflies and smiles on her face to the most favorite person her husband, her family, in-laws, and her guests, the day she will start the beginning of her forever journey with her Mr Right, the day she will be called Mrs A, the day her journey to motherhood begins, the day she will be answerable to her husband and not her friends and parents, the day she will start executing ideas with her husband and not her friends, the day he will make up his mind to spend less time chatting and hanging with his friends outside and more time at home bonding with his wife, the day they will start their journey to parenthood together.
But you see, you can have your wedding now with just few people around and have a big wedding reception in a year or two when we all get over this pandemic issue.
A marriage blessed with a kid or two already.
How beautiful!!!
A lot of things about our lives are about to change.
Even in the next 5,6,7 months, things will not automatically reset to how it used to be in the past 5,6,7, months.
This is the reality.
We keep recording higher number of Covid19 cases on a daily.
There is even hope if the vaccine is existing already, there is even hope if the recorded cases are decreasing instead of increasing, there is even hope if we can all survive by staying at home without going out to contract or infect others with the virus...
The reality to this is that, it doesn't get better, it keeps getting scarier but hopeful.
This pandemic should not even stop your shine, you are not rushing anything but you are already starting your lives together.
My dear brides and grooms to be, if you have set your wedding date already, please reschedule a nearer date and have your big day in a low key, then a loud reception when all this is over.
Wishing you all a beautiful marital bliss.
Let the journey to "my wife" and "my husband" begin!!!!!
Shoe: MyTheresa
Wedding gown: DemiDress
Ring: Bozjewelry
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